i am deciding to change the title of my blog. to live is not a habit does not quite cut it anymore. the way i live, it will always be a habit. it's unrealistic to pursue that as there will always be parts that are a form of habit, and parts where i know i will try new activities... so brainstorming...

to live is to drink
to live... and die
to live on ur own terms (not really, sometimes u have to be flexible)
to live flexibly (no direction)
to live comfortably
to live lavishly
to live like a king
to live like everyone else
to live on my own

ok i hit it. i want to live on my own in 3 yrs' time or less. by then i'll be 29.

so back to the drawing board to realise this dream. in any case, my previous dream died - a dream held steadfast for 2 years. and i believe dreams do have a way of extinguishing itself. mine's upon hearing it, and i knew for sure it was game over. it was a lost cause, and foolhardiness won't make fireworks out of forgone conclusions.

to my dearest friends, i hope 3 years from now, i will host for you guys a fantastic housewarming party. i can already imagine the setting.... a nice long table... cans of chilled asahi in the fridge... soft lounge music in the background and we all feast on what else... shabu shabu!